Have you ever thought why you have born and what you are doing with your life. We all are living our lives in our own standards and believe that you don't want interruption from anybody. At the same time we all criticize people for their mistakes or talk behind them about the things they are doing no matter what that's right or wrong. It is always easy to see what others are doing and criticize them for their failure and we always try to be safe from those things that nobody can say any bad things in return. Easy to see and speak out loud for the mistakes people do and we are not aware what literally we do. Here are the things that you need to upgrade and be more aware of self improvements. Everything occurs within you first then you pass the vibration to others to feel it the same way. Be aware of this that before criticizing others you are standing on the right floor and accept things as it is.
Show Up Early
Whatever you are doing or involved with try to show up earlier, at least 15 minutes that you never rush or give people a chance to annoy you. No matter what job you are doing, or if you are a student, or if you are an employee, or if you are a business owner, keep your time ahead to be there always. It feels great and relax when you are earlier than the asked time.
The benefits you can get from showing up early is precious. Most importantly if you show up early you will get a lot of choices or options. Suppose you are going to attend a seminar and a seminar means a life lesson class where you learn things that never taught in schools. So if you show up early you can pick the best seat to interact with the speaker and even for the best visual. When you are early, you get to choose the ideal location for optimal learning and interaction with your peer.
Get Rid of Toxic Relationship
Toxic sounds very familiar and we know what does it mean. Toxic people brings the hectic impact in life and make it difficult day to day. A toxic relationship literally means that who don't support each other, where there's a conflict, and where there's an unhealthy competition appears moment to moment, where there's disrespect and lack of cohesiveness. Every
relationship goes through ups and downs while a toxic relationship is consistently unpleasant and drain all negativity and lead to chaotic ending.
We all face this type of relationship or may be you are also involved with such kind of toxic relationship but can't ignore it because you need to meet them everyday or you are literally living with them together that is call society. If you are going through this and you are already experiencing tons of stress to maintain the relationship, I am telling you to just let it go. You do not belong there where you do not have a least value or you do not get any positive impact from them. Where your every opinion is considered as criticism and they put you down the ground each and every moment for no reason. It's time to upgrade your relationship to cohesive and good relationship where they value your opinion and existence and support you for anything and everything.
Read Daily and More
Only reading can calm your restless mind down and shift your thoughts quickly. Read more and read everyday and make it a good habit. I bet you will never regret this but increase your knowledge and get to know more about lives, people and things. Reading is a good habit we all know that and upgrade your reading to various fields and give more time to read than spending meaningless time.
Value your time and if you do not know how to value it, start with reading a book. By reading you will know and understand how constructive this habit is. You will realize the power of reading and indeed it has an invisible power that can lead you to a new idea which can bring you a very powerful resource in reality. Reading does not mean you only read books, it could be a blog post, a news article, a novel, or any kind of books. Stop spending time for nothing and give a try with reading to upgrade your standard to be a person you are dreaming to become.
To start read daily below are my few recommendations and you are going to love this I bet and it will change your thoughts as it did already mine.
You are a badass by Jin Sincero
The Subtle Art of not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson
Get out of your head by Jennie Allen
Create Value
Whatever you are doing, create a value first. Be productive and only productivity can bring value in your life. But the thing is that you may be curious to know that how you can create value. About value creation I have mentioned above how to start valuing your time by reading a book and build a constructive mindset. Be busy to create value in life rather than waiting for
someone who will change your life. Your life will be meaningless until you create a value, and remember this, whatever you are doing for living, you are paid for your value not time. Time is priceless and nobody can stop it, but there is a big difference who value it and who doesn't. Who value time they live in their best and enjoy their lives as they want. And who doesn't value their time they are still waiting for chances that they think life will change within a snap or a Genie will show up and bring a difference in their lives.
How can I create value in my life? You can do it by upgrading your skillset by putting a small effort on daily basis. List up your skills that you are paid for or going to be paid soon and add or modify each skill and upgrade it on daily basis. You value your time with your skill and a skill brings a change in your life.
Learn to Enjoy the Process
Whatever in the world existing has its own process. Do you want to become a successful person? It has it's own process. Do you want to learn how to play piano? It has it's own process. Do you want to become the best sportsman? It has it's own process. In whatever field you want to become, you must learn the process and go through this. Nothing will happen if you do not go through the process. To enjoy a delicious dish or cuisine it must be cooked through the process. Without following the process, if you put your all efforts, nothing good will happen but you will lose your energy and eventually fail and end up blaming or criticizing. So learn to enjoy the process and upgrade your level.
Do not ever ignore a tiny process and if you do it will cost you energy and money both. Know the process first and enjoy it as it is. A process defines the success level and you must follow it accordingly. If the process is wrong make it right by doing it not by explaining or thinking it. If there is no process create your own and give a live action and see the result by experimenting not by judging.
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