Being wrong is not a bad thing unless you take it as too personal towards things. You may have a different perspective and don't want to be wrong at all. However, believe it or not, you learn more from the mistakes you make. But the truth is, nobody wants to be wrong with anything and everybody feels bad when they do wrong things rather than the right things. And there are some people who accept it as a process and part of life. Whats the difference? They grow faster and learn new things through the process they go. They come up with ideas and actions that makes them more accurate. They learn the wrong process first and come up with ideas to make new courses and get things done.
The world we are living where people love to be right all the time including you and me. We are not different at all. If you are doing things right, you will often be wrong. It is not easy to admit that your ideas aren't great and also it is not easy to admit that you are wrong, but it a part of process to come up with ideas, wrong ideas to make the right idea.
Life is a process of transformation
The idea you are thinking of can be the early steps of transformation. Life has to go through a process to transform invisible ideas to visible things. If transformation is not your goal then life will be a drift. Transforming your life involves a lot of things you do on a daily basis including the way you live, co-creating a better life for yourself, and changing the way you live. To all these happen, you use your thoughts, ideas, visualization, words, faith, actions or a whole combination of them.
When you use same process the result will transform similarly and most importantly if the process is wrong the result will transform negatively. To get a right result you are expecting you may have to change your ideas, thoughts and processes. And to get that one thing right you may go through hundreds of times with the wrong process to get the right one.
You may need to change the concept, understand the co-creation process for a better life, and to live your life differently. The sooner you realize to transform you life the better result you will enjoy. However, transforming your life can be challenging, yet exciting and rewarding.
Pretending to know everything is dangerous
Pretending to know everything is self-denial and suicidal. You become protective and at the same time you push yourself towards a danger zone. You create unnecessary pressure in your brain and make yourself suffocate to grow unintentional tension. Admitting you don't know everything is not a sign of ignorance; It's a sign of self-awareness.
If you pretend to know everything you deny to learn the true process from the experts and leave yourself behind from the process of learning. Being wrong and pretending to be right all the time is not the same. Being wrong means you have some rooms to admit yourself to learn things from the mistakes while pretending to know everything shuts your all the doors and lock yourself down in the dark.
If you want to become better in your personal life and career, you need to stop pretending to know everything that you don't know. This is the best way to learn from the mistakes and also helps you to know the unknown things. Being nice, humble, and honest is the fastest way to build a strong relationships and become more intelligent person.
Dare to become who you were born to be
If you hide yourself in the dark that you are ashamed of mistakes you make and do things wrongly that disappoints others and stop doing things you have to do, you are disregarding your life that you suppose to become. You are having a unique life and born to be unique that nothing can change or stop becoming you.
You do wrong things, or the thing you do brings negative results doesn't define your capability or skills. People make mistakes and so do you and making mistakes means the wrong process that may need a new concentration or concept to replace. Thomas Albert Edison went through thousands of wrong process to make the right one and the world is blessed with the light. Keep moving and keep progressing and never stop becoming yourself.
Being wrong can be right
Being wrong always helps you become right. By not being possessed by being right, you're less susceptible to being trapped in confirmation bias. You are less fearful of being wrong because you care more about understanding that thing you are tying to understand. That's what happens when you want to learn more than showing others how much you have learned.
Being right puts us in a wrong dimension. We oversimplify reality. We forget we are subjects and see the reality with the subjective lens. No matter how smart or logic you are, your mind plays a role in filtering your experiences.
We all fear wrong and if you believe you are wrong then there is something wrong with you and you become the mistake. We think wrong is a destination, not a journey. We stop listening to others. The belief of 'being always right' assumes that everyone else is wrong. When you own the truth, you stop trying to understand other people's point of view.
Getting things wrong is part of everyone's process. We all are lacking knowledge or awareness in something until we learn.
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