The life we are living is full of stress and struggles. And most of the time it happens to us to give up on things with or without reasons. We may already be surrendered to the situation and start believing nothing good will happen in life and it is better not seeking a best life. When you feel this know that you are losing your hope towards life and being surrendered to any situations. You don't see it when you are passing a hard time and all past results were destructive and violative. You were hoping a lot of good things in life, you hoped for happiness in your relationships, abundance in your finances, and overall fulfillment in your life, but surprisingly none of them truly happened in your life. This article discusses how to find lost hope based on 3 things below;
Set Realistic Goals
This is where most of us make huge mistake and try to set unrealistic goals in life. When we unable to achieve those goals or the process delay us to reach the goal, we become extremely unhappy and disappointed. We lose our hope and start believing thing never happens as we want. For an example, you want to become a millionaire in next 2 months, it is very unlikely and unrealistic. There is nothing wrong with your goal but the process and timeline you are setting is very unrealistic. But if you set the same goal and want to become a millionaire in next 5-10 years, it is very possible and your hope will always be alive. Hope happens when we have the ability to set realistic goals ad when we know -
I can do this and it is very possible
Have enough time to achieve it
There are certain people already achieved it
Where I want to go
The process is very realistic
Ability to Achieve Goals
Anybody can set their goals, but the true potential is to have the ability to achieve the goal. Ability does not grow by itself and you must earn it. When you are setting your goals you must be aware to have the abilities to achieve your goals. Hope happens when we are -
Able to figure out how to achieve goals
Know the ability to stay flexible and develop alternative routes
Know how to get there
Able to tolerate the disappointment
Able to stay persistent
Able to accept failure and try again
Able to learn a new process when current one does not work and never give up
Able to take advice from the experts
Believe in Yourself
You already set realistic goals and know the ability you have to achieve your goals, the last you must implement within you to keep your hope alive is to believe in yourself. Your hope dies when you lose believe in yourself. There will be a lot of distractions coming from the people around, and also discouragements and if you follow them you will loss self-believe. To grow self-believe and find hope you must -
Focus on what you can control
Embrace self-love
Re-adjust your focus
Meditate regularly
Adopt a mindset of growth
Develop a new skillset
Quiet your mind and keep apart from distractions
Embrace failure and take the lesson from it
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