Perhaps this is the most hardest thing to anyone to stay positive in a negative situation. Because a negative situation always keep you pushing to think about it. However, with a focused effort, we can take the time to slow back down, Through mindful practices, we can find more happiness, joy, and meanings in our lives.
People ditch you ... so what?
Remember one thing, you are living your life and whatever people do things at you, it doesn't matter until you react. So mind your business and do not pay any attention at whatever people say about you. They can ditch you and do unfair things, but if you think too much about all of these things it will drain your energy and distract you from being positive.
People disrespect you ... so what?
In life, you will meet different types of people and most of them will disrespect you with or without reason. Remember, you cannot buy any respect and you have to earn it. No matter how people judge you, how they treat you, just do not try to force people to respect you.
People put you down ... so what?
For many reasons, people will put you down and create a lot of unnecessary scenes. They will testify you for many different reasons, and also they will play with you games and win over you and put you down the ground. They will enjoy your bad times and make situations worse for you. You need to keep your chin up and move forward.
People talk behind your back ... so what?
If you are doing the most of the things and perhaps right things, there will always be people criticize you and talk behind your back. Some of them will even do this in front of you by a direct insult. Remember, people only talk about the who do their most. If people are talking behind your back, think you are in a right track.
People misjudge you ... so what?
As the many ways of disrespect, they will misjudge you for any simple reasons. The best thing about the worst time of your life is that you get to see the true color of everyone. They may act good with you when time is good and when bad times come, they will never stand beside you and misjudge you and follow other people's opinion.
People avoid you ... so what?
Once, people hear something bad about you, they will start distrust you and avoid to be with you. Even your closers one will start avoid you and trust only other people's opinion. Try to understand that there are always reasons people start avoiding you and whatever the reason is, do not react directly and stat positive.
People fooled you ... so what?
You can be fooled in normal days, at your work place, and any other places. You may have experiences suffering for many times and ashamed. Fooled, and fooled again, so what, just be positive and stay focused and learn from the past.
It does not matter what people think about you and it brings no changes in your life if they are talking good or bad about you. What matters the most is, you is you and never pay any attention what people say or talk about you. It's their job and pay a full attention on yourself. At the end of the day, no one is coming to safe you. You eat alone, sleep alone, and you die alone. So live alone with the best version of yourself!
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