We often hear people to say I shouldn't do this or I should have done this etc. Which literally means regretting for the past events that already happened and recall the memory for the mistakes or bad things. Now, think how much you will regret if you keep living the exactly same life and the same way, making the same mistakes over and over again.
Learning not to make the same mistakes time to time again you would think to reflect and grow. If you do not want to live the same life where you are now and do not want to repeat the mistakes you have already done, you must need to focus on things or need to discover yourself newly. Do this 10 things if you do not want to regret in life.
Invest in yourself
Do invest in yourself as much as you can. Every single thing you will invest in yourself will make you richer and give you a chance to grow. Any self investment is an incredible benefit you are going to get in return. If you weren't aware of this do invest in yourself first before anybody invest in you. Figure out what you are good at and educate yourself constantly. If you do not know how to do that find someone who can instruct you properly and expert in the field. An instructor means a mentor and a paid mentor will guide you and make you worth exactly the way you want to or even better.
Do not waste time
If you only keep thinking and do nothing, you will end up wasting time. Stop wasting time and use it properly. Do a proper plan and execute them accordingly. Be a doer rather than being a constant thinker. If you only think and bring no action, you will be still there after 10 years where you are now. Do the things, bring actions in your life and do not make any excuses. If you are wasting your time now you will surely regret for it and pay for it by staying constantly broke and end up to work for someone for the rest of the life.
Do not give up
Success is a continuous process and if you stop in the middle or skip the process it will cost you giving up on this. Keep growing and keep going and believe in the process by not giving it up at all. It is not always easy to stay focused, but if a single process does not work try it in other ways, find the right things to fix it.
Do not strive perfection
Perfection is not real but we work to be perfect at every aspects of our lives. If you always strive for perfection life will be more complicated and you will become unhappy. Do your best instead striving perfection and you will achieve what you want. Giving a start rather than striving perfection will take you far away you ever could imagine. Keep doing and see the magic happens in your life.
Be true to yourself
Always be true to yourself. Do not hide anything that will bring a disaster in your life. A lie can give you some comfort for the moment but it will reveal one day that will cost you big. Speak the truth and be true to yourself no matter what and never regret for it.
Save money
Before you spend you must earn and save from your earnings. Saving means securing your life for the future and do not spend money before you earn. It is always easy to spend a lot but hard to earn a lot. You can spend your money within a snap but it is not that easy to earn. Save for your future and invest it once you have saved enough and do not put that money idle. Let money works for you at the same way you worked to earn it.
Be more grateful
Show your gratitude in the every aspects of life. Be grateful to people, to anything that let you become now you. Thank people and appreciate them for what they have done for you. Watch your words even if it's really hard to control and be patient. Your gratitude build your attitude among the people you surrounded by. Acknowledge the past and move on to create your dream future.
Live in the moment
If you are depressed then you are living in the past, if you are anxious then you are living in the future, and if you are at peace then you are living in the present/moment - Lau Tzu.
Your past will give you only depression and your future will give you worries for uncertainty, but the moment you are living now will give you the peace and joyous moments.
Find a passion
You will regret your whole life if you do not find your passion. Know yourself well to figure your passion and work on it. Your passion is your dream and your dream is your successive life. Find your passion and become who you want to be.
Travel more
You will never regret with this habit and it is very precious. People learn more by experiencing by seeing, touching and doing things physically by present. Traveling will give you a real life to experience about the diversity. The world is yours; explore it while you are still able.
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